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How To Arrange A Threesome?

  • 14 April

Have you ever thought about what it’s like to be in a three-way? Maybe you’ve given it much thought lately and lean towards the idea of experiencing it, perhaps with your girlfriend or wife (if you have one), or maybe a regular fuck buddy you want to practice it with. You’ll be surprised that 1 in 7 Americans experienced threesome, while 1 in 5—just like you—have found the thought of it appealing.

As society progresses and becomes more liberal in their sex views, many more people become more open about exploring their sexual options. If you think threesomes are for you, consider checking these valuable tips to help you successfully plan the perfect threesome.

Tip 1: Have open communication.

Whether if it’s with your partner or a regular fuck buddy, talking is crucial in finding success in planning a threesome. Talk to them and be open about everything. Having an open discussion about your needs, desires, and fears toward sex gives you a much deeper understanding of your partner’s background. It also helps you to respond better in also giving them pleasure. After all, sex is all about one’s satisfaction.

Tip 2: List down what you want to accomplish and find your ideal “third wheel.”

Sit down together and discuss what it is you’re both looking for as you find the perfect threesome lover. It must be both agreeable to what you want and should not favor one over the other. Some of this may include their physical attractiveness, personality; maybe size can even go into the equation. You both should decide.

Tip 3: Discuss boundaries and consent

One of the worst mistakes people, especially couples, make when they arrange a threesome is not discussing boundaries and, more importantly, consent. You both should clearly define what makes you comfortable inside the bedroom. It may include participating in different sex acts that perhaps one might disapprove of.

Remember that no one wants to be yanked into a situation where everything is cringe-y and awkward.

Tip 4: Find ways on how you can search for the newest addition to your threesome team.

When you don’t know anyone personally who’s down to do some three-way thumping, the question next then is, “where can I find the most suitable partner?” The answer is simple. You can sign up to different dating or free fuckbook websites to find the best candidate for you on your threesome session.

Tip 5: Talk about safe sex and condom use

Opening discussion for safe sex and protection is crucial in any sexual situation. It actually should be non-negotiable too. The use of condoms is essential and should be done without fail. As STIs are more rampant nowadays, people should take their sexual health and safety seriously.

Tip 6: Enjoy the moment and just go with the flow

Sometimes, three-way sessions are best left to happen organically, meaning you should lose yourself in the moment and not overthink the whole situation. While there is no assurance that it will be a success or failure for you, there’s no other way to find out than by experiencing it for yourself.

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