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The Best Music to Make Love (or Fuck to) ;)

Music has a unique ability to totally change the way we feel, the way we act, and even the way that we experience emotions.

There’s a reason why movies always play certain kinds of music ahead of certain kinds of scenes (scary scenes, romantic scenes, action scenes, etc.) and there’s a reason why we immediately are flooded with memories – very specific memories – the second that we hear a song that really connected with us on an emotional level.

Well, music also has the ability to take sex to the next level.

Maybe you’re looking for something a little more romantic to bump up the passion with a sex buddy or maybe you’re looking for a more primal soundtrack to play when you and your fuck friend want to heat things up and really go wild.

Below we highlight some of the best music to play in the bedroom (or anywhere else you and your sex pal our meeting up) to get the temperature up.

Romantic Tunes

These aren’t the kind of songs you want to apply for meeting up with a fuck friend for a quickie, but they are maybe the kinds of songs you want to throw on when you’re looking to celebrate a romantic anniversary, a romantic holiday, or just to kind of slow things down and get to know each other’s body.

According to Spotify, the top most popular romantic sex songs for 2018 were:

  • Love Yourself by Justin Bieber
  • All of Me by John Legend
  • Photograph by Ed Sheeran
  • Not a Bad Thing by Justin Timberlake
  • Pony by Ginuwine
  • Could You Be Loved by Bob Marley

Of course, you can’t go wrong with Let’s Get It On by Marvin Gaye or practically anything by Sam Cooke if you’re in the mood for something a little slower, little more classic, and a little more romantic for sure.

In fact, any of the classic R;B songs or anything from old-school crooners like Sinatra and Dean Martin will probably fall into the romantic sex song category, too.

Hookup Songs

At the same time, not everybody’s looking to throw on some scented candles, turn the lights down low, and reenact scenes from the movie Ghosts every time they toss their pants off.

If you and a fuck friend really just want to get right down to it but would mind some background music to set the mood you might want to check out some of these songs while you are getting right down to it:

  • Don’t by Bryson Tiller
  • Marvin’s Room by Drake
  • The Morning by The Weeknd
  • Crew Love by Drake
  • Sorry by Rick Ross
  • Swimming Pools by Kendrick Lamar

All of these songs are going to bring quite a bit of energy to your horizontal hoedown, and all of them have underlying beats and bass lines that pick up the pace every now and again that you’ll want to set your own rhythm two.

Have these songs on a playlist the next time that your sex buddy comes over for hookup and it won’t be long until the two of you are starting to sweat between the sheets.

Really Getting After It

Of course, if you’re really looking to ramp things up and want to get some primal action going – where you aren’t even thinking about what’s going on but are just responding to the music and to their body – there are a couple of songs that can send you (and your partner) over the edge almost immediately.

We’re talking about songs like:

  • Closer by Nine Inch Nails
  • Cola by Lana Del Ray
  • Monnage Daydream by David Bowie
  • Sexx Dreams by Lady Gaga
  • Need You Tonight by INXS
  • Earned It by The Weeknd
  • Enter Sandman by Metallica

In The End

At the end of the day, the whole idea of picking music to have sex to is really to set the mood, set the tone, and set the kind of atmosphere that you want to enjoy with your sex buddy.

And while you want to be a little bit careful about the musical choice you make to have in the background (since music has so much power when it comes to setting the mood and the energy level) the cold, hard truth the matter is that most people could fuck with nothing but The Weather Channel on repeat in the background – even in a foreign language.

The tracks we highlighted above will definitely help elevate things a little bit but it’s really all going to come down to the kind of connection that you have with the person that you’re sleeping with, not so much the music that is pumping out of your iPhone while you are getting down to it.

Keep that in mind the next time that your fuck friend is sliding by and you’ll be good to go!